Solo travel can open you up to amazing connections especially with other women or men who seem like they're on your same wave.
But here's the truth: just because someone feels safe, doesn't mean they are.
And just because you’re vibing doesn’t mean you need to spill your whole itinerary.
This isn’t about paranoia it’s about preserving your safety while protecting your spirit.
1. Just Because You Click Doesn’t Mean You Share Everything
You meet a cool man or woman on this stunning beach, surfing or in a cute café. Conversation flows, relatable experiences and you feel like you’ve known her or him forever. That’s great. I've met so many wonderful People along the way myself.
But still keep your personal details limited and intentional:
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Don’t say you’re traveling alone.
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Don’t give away where you’re staying.
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Don’t list your exact plans or next stop.
Avoid telling anyone your full itinerary ever.
Let people think you’re meeting up with someone later. Let them assume you're with a group. You’re not obligated to clear that up.
Soft life still requires smart boundaries.
2. When Strangers Ask for Directions, Pause First
Here’s something subtle but real: Why are they asking you Sis?
Always assess your surroundings first. Look around. Are you isolated? Were they watching you beforehand? Trust your instincts.
If you feel off, here’s a solid move:
“Sorry, I’m not sure. You might want to ask the people over there at that shop.”
You redirect without putting yourself in a position to stop, linger, or be followed. Be kind if you want but don’t be accessible.
Don’t Take Taxis Alone in Isolated Areas
This one is non-negotiable:
🚫 No taxis or rideshares alone in off road or remote areas. I've almost had to take one, getting to my destination late and several taxi's in plane cars asking me at the same time to get in their car, like "Come now".. very overwhelming but luckily, there was a local bus stop near and I took that instead. It was at that moment, I knew to plan better and not get caught doing that again.
If you must travel:
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Use well known travel companies or shuttle services or rent a car like Discover Cars around the World
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Take buses or group tours when going far. Travel you can trust here
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If it’s a must only ride with 2–3 people you know or trust. Make sure to at least have a stick on you and that door handles are working from the inside.
A cheap ride is never worth the risk. And once you’re off grid so your options shrink. Choose safety first, always.
4. Fortify Where You Stay
Hotels, hostels, Airbnb's no matter the vibe, make sure you secure your room:
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Lock the door behind you immediately.
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Use any available security latch or deadbolt.
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Prop a chair or suitcase against the door at night (extra layer of noise if someone tries to come in).
You don't need to be scared to sleep but you do need to be smart about how you protect your space.
Skip the Late Nights (or stick to Next door Spots or visible from your Stay
You don’t need to be out until 3AM to enjoy yourself.
Solo travel is rich with day excursions sunrise hikes, beach walks, shopping streets, city tours.
If you do go out at night:
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Choose a bar, restaurant, or lounge next door to where you're staying.
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Join a vetted group (like a solo traveler meetup with clear organizers).
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Have a solid “leave plan” that doesn’t rely on anyone else.
And avoid drinking too much when you’re alone especially in unfamiliar areas. Being relaxed is beautiful. Being vulnerable isn’t.
Final Word:
Solo travel is sacred. It builds self trust, clarity, and independence.
But the soft life isn’t just about staying open it’s about staying alert.
Keep your energy light, but your boundaries heavy.
Share selectively. Move wisely. And always make sure your protection is louder than your need to connect. Your safety is non-negotiable and so is your peace. Click here for The 4 Unpopular Truths about the Soft Lifestyle here
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