She Surf Life and Culture by the Coast

Every entrepreneur knows the feeling. You put in the late nights, sketch out the vision, and finally launch something you’ve been dreaming about. Suddenly, the same people who looked at you funny for your ideas are now copying your style, stealing your words, and showing up where you’…

When most people hear the word strategy , they think of manipulation. They picture someone plotting in secret, trying to trick or outsmart others. But the truth is: strategy is not about deception, it’s about survival, protection, and intentional living. I learned this early. Growing …

Let’s be real for a second. If you’re building on social media, you’ve seen it happen. You post something fresh, raw, and true to your vision and a week later, somebody who’s been quietly lurking on your profile suddenly starts posting the exact same thing.  They pop up in your scroll b…

Solo travel can open you up to amazing connections especially with other women or men who seem like they're on your same wave. But here's the truth: just because someone feels safe, doesn't mean they are . And just because you’re vibing doesn’t mean you need to spill your…

Solo travel doesn’t just require courage, it requires strategy. In Part 1, I talked about holding your boundaries, trusting your instincts, and not performing politeness for strangers. Now I want to go even deeper into the tactical moves I’ve learned over time from being a traveler ab…

Staying safe while solo traveling is more about trusting your gut not social rules.  Solo travel can be an empowering journey. It teaches you how to move through the world on your own terms, . But let’s be clear: for women, solo travel also means carrying the weight of hyper awareness. We…

Let’s start with the truth: living a soft life isn’t just about candles, skincare, and silk robes. As a street smart woman who's done a lot of my own inner work and healing. It’s not always gentle. It’s not always aesthetic. Sometimes it’s about making hard choices that protect yo…